tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990351249805345004.post7490567134930443242..comments2024-03-28T08:55:00.522-04:00Comments on The Misadventures of Widowhood: Building a Social Life, Enacting the Master PlanMisadventures of Widowhoodhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17262709452281226620noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990351249805345004.post-69599476221801838942013-09-21T00:30:36.740-04:002013-09-21T00:30:36.740-04:00Tear aren't as bad as waking up with a scream....Tear aren't as bad as waking up with a scream. I did that recently, too, and it's been years and years since that's happened. I took the closed doors to mean the same thing you did..sort of. I think I was looking to find a new life for myself much as I've been doing while awake.Misadventures of Widowhoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17262709452281226620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990351249805345004.post-29770129806221126752013-09-21T00:02:07.525-04:002013-09-21T00:02:07.525-04:00I don't like waking up with tears on my face--...I don't like waking up with tears on my face--or with my mouth wide open in a scream. Perhaps the closed doors and you trying to open them has to do with your finding your way--wanting to know which door to open. What's behind Door Number One. Or, should I choose Door Number Two. I don't open any doors and that probably, is out of fear. Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990351249805345004.post-37349647491937442013-09-18T10:40:33.215-04:002013-09-18T10:40:33.215-04:00Thank you for sharing that, gowitheflo. Only anoth...Thank you for sharing that, gowitheflo. Only another widow understands what's it's like to have 'conversations' with our died spouses whether they take the form of nighttime or daytime dreams. I suspect we're just looking for validation for the direction our lives are going from the one person whose opinion we value the most. Misadventures of Widowhoodhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17262709452281226620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5990351249805345004.post-74883548303279075562013-09-18T10:27:33.325-04:002013-09-18T10:27:33.325-04:00I feel sad, too, reading about your dream searchin...I feel sad, too, reading about your dream searching for the keys to open doors. But I am struck with gratitude for Don's appearance. He so believes in you. I believe in you, too.<br /><br />Youre aware that I recently concluded that living alone suits me, after a foray into living with a boyfriend. Still, I've written a profile for Matchdotcom and joined the site. Why??? I hesitate GowitheFlohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01842273685414939160noreply@blogger.com