I nearly forgot to write my Saturday sacrifice to the gods
of cyberspace because all week I’ve been burning up the internet shopping for birthday
décor for a party that isn’t going to happen for two and a half months. I’m so
one tracked when I’ve got a bee in my bonnet like that. I should be working on
my income taxes or cleaning the insides of my kitchen cabinets which I usually do this
time of the year. I’ve got a whole house full of similar projects I could be
doing but, no, instead I’m driving myself crazy looking at Alice in Wonderland
theme napkins, drink me bottles, keys, pocket watches, pink flamingos, tea
party menus and other things that have nothing to do with the age of the guest of
honor. And who would that be, you ask? Me. I’m throwing myself a party. An
English Afternoon Tea Party with finger sandwiches and eatable gemstones---rubies, sapphires and diamonds, oh my! Well, unless I change my mind which I’ve been doing all week.
I’ve probably driven my best friend since kindergarten crazy
right along with me with e-mails flying back and forth. N.B. is my
go-to person when it comes to questions about cooking and entertaining. She’s
spent most of her adult life creating fabulous menus for parties and get-togethers
out in suburbs of Washington, D.C. She creates
and cooks. I buy and warm up. She loves entertaining. I fall apart at the very
thought. She owns lots of china and linens in different patterns and colors. Back two years ago I decided to downsize my large collection
of Buffalo 1940s diner dishes that I used every day and instead I completed my
mom’s set of lily-of-valley dishes by Primrose China to make up place settings
for six plus a few serving dishes. The internet is great. It only took me a two
month of shopping e-Bay and the China Replacement LTD and more money than I
care to admit to find what my mom probably got free with her groceries. It
seems fair since my brother and I were probably responsible for breaking more
than our share of her favorite dishes back when we were kids.
I got off track here. Back to the party. This week I’ve been
to Hobby Lobby twice. Once to buy and once to return the table décor. In
between I discovered that my one and only table cloth isn’t big enough when I put the
extensions in the table so the color scheme I was going to use had to leave town before dark.
Can you tell I don’t entertain enough to even know a basic fact like that? That
wouldn’t happened to N.B. and I panicked over the discovery. She
had a great work-around solution only by the time I read her e-mail I had
combed the World Wide Web and found a set of six placemats that will go with my
mom’s dishes and my vintage moss green Fenton thumbprint stemware. Yes, the
party will be small---my Gathering Girls friends---and I’m not sure what I’m
going to do for a seventh place setting but I’ll come up with something for the
birthday girl.
What I’m most proud of finding on the web are little glass
bottles with corks and tags that read, “Drink Me!” Do you think women in their
70s and 80s---my guests---will remember that Alice drank a potion from a bottle
to shrink her size so she’d fit through the door to the magic garden? I’m
thinking of buying the “Eat Me!” tags too to put on cherry tarts like Alice ate
but I think we all know that eating sweets makes us grow bigger. I may have to
read Lewis Carroll’s book again in case someone quizzes me on how some of
the Alice in Wonderland things fit into the story, include pink flamingos,
pocket watches and Victorian keys.
At Hobby Lobby they had an entire featured display of
flamingo stuff---from pillows to signs to salt and pepper shakers to glasses
and dishes. They grew on me as I walked around and around the display. They made me smile and reminded me
of vacations with warm weather and blue skies. If the dollar store has some
flamingo yard ornaments this spring I might buy one to put by my front door for
the party and make a sign saying, "Go this way!" But I'm not sure how
many adults will remember the book well enough to know about those signs and
flamingos.
In my travels around the internet this week I found an
article at Smithsonian.com titled, The
Tacky History of the Pink Flamingo. I wasn’t really surprised to learn they’ve
been around since 1957. Talk about staying power! They were first created in
Massachusetts, of all places, by an art school sculptor who’d been hired by a local
plastics company and the rest is history, a history that early-on included Andy
Warhol helping to make the fake birds become a cultural pop-icon. And that’s
your retro-cool aficionado lesson for today. Oh, no! Should I/could I change my
party theme---again---this time to Flamingo City? This week should go down in The Big Book of Wasted Time as a classic example of a widow with too much time on her hands. ©
The party sounds like great fun, and it sounds like you're enjoying planning it!
ReplyDeleteI constantly wonder what we'd do without the internet. Like most people, I rush to it to answer my most basic queries. ~ Libby
There were a lot of years when I'd go to the library twice a week with a list of things to look up. But now the only time I go is if they've got an interesting lecture planned. Though when the weather is better I need to go and have them show me how to borrow books with my Kindle Fire.
DeleteI have been having fun planning a theme party.
If you go with the pink flamingo by the front door, combine it with a croquet ball, and that ought to do it. Who can forget the image of playing croquet with a flamingo? Do a Google image search for "playing croquet with flamingo" and you'll get some remarkable results -- and maybe a few ideas.
ReplyDeleteI had actually forgotten how the flamingos fit into the book but your right, a few more visual clues would help. I've been all over the internet looking for stuff and it finally dawned on my that I have stuff in the house that would fit it....like a large white rabbit, pocket watches, a dollhouse table with a tea set and cake and a tiny handmade rabbit that could sit at that table. I'm off to google "playing croquet with flamingo."
DeleteI used to decorate my classroom with pink plastic flamingos and other pink flamingo decor just for fun.
ReplyDeleteOver the years I've been tempted to get a flock of flamingos for my yard and move them around the yard in the middle of the night. But I guess in some neighborhoods it's a big prank to move a flock around different people's yards. That's what stops me from buying them. If I pay for them, I don't want to lose them!
DeleteWe've had some serious discussions lately about a flamingo or two for our yard-we could always put it in the tiered back yard. Although, we already have five different cement trolls circling our tree that no one has messed with. So maybe we might risk it.
DeleteTrolls have a way of disappearing too, I hear. Glad you've had good luck with yours staying home.
DeleteI admire your pluck but could never in this life time tackle such a project. Have fun and I do hope you take lots of pictures.
ReplyDeleteI've only planned two parties in my entire life and have only had people over dinner 3-4 times so this could be a huge disaster. But these ladies are so much fun I'm sure anything that that went wrong would be accepted as just part of who I am with no criticism.
DeleteOops, make that three parties. I forgot I hosted the very first queen crowning of my Red Hat Society with 20 some people, but others did bring food. The planning and decorating was all on me. It was fun.
DeleteOMG this party theme/idea is FREAKING BRILLIANT!!!! And I hereby give you permission to buy one more place setting, as your birthday gift to the birthday girl (yourself.) I'm just gobsmacked at how great this theme is! (and I'm much more like you - for lack of room and motivation- than your friend is, re gumption on party and entertaining.)
ReplyDeleteWhen I first decided I wanted to do a party---to make up for all the ones I didn't get as a kid (or an adult)---I knew I wanted something that reminded me of childhood. When I settled on Alice in Wonderland I couldn't believe how much stuff is available. I truly am having a hard time editing my choices down because you could spend a freaking fortune if you got it all.
DeleteSounds like a lot to bite off at our age. I remember doing up the big themed parties for my kids ... lots of work and lots of clean up. I hope your party is a big success!
ReplyDeleteI never had kids to plan parties for but I'll bet that was fun. The food part is the only thing that will stress me out and I'm keeping it really simple by doing a tea party theme.
DeleteThis party sounds FANTASTIC! I wish I lived closer ... we had a Let's Flamingle party last summer ... our Dollar Store did have tall metal flamingos ... I stuck them in pineapples for potluck tables. Amazon had straws with flamingos, sox with flamingos and you are right you can spend money fast! HAVE FUN!
ReplyDeleteTrust me, I'm lusting over those straws at Amazon. I got their napkins with Alice holding a Flamingo. I was thinking today it would be easier to have a bigger party than just seven because then I could using a catering service. The fun part is the shopping for stuff. Oh, well, on my 100th birthday I'll do that.
DeleteWhat an excellent theme! The party sounds like it will be a blast as it is driven by your enthusiasm!
ReplyDeleteI love the little bottle idea. I feel like filling a couple of them with colored water for the kitchen window with Warning Do Not Drink Me. You Will Shrink!
Those little bottles are so cute and I'm already trying to figure out how to use them the party is over. I love your variation on classic "Drink me!"
DeleteI see the comment above but I must admit that I didn’t remember the flamingos in Alice in Wonderland. It’s the caterpillar and the cat and the tea party that I remember. I guess I should revisit the book! It is always an entertaining reread. You could have a black and white checkered tablecloth and play chess (or some variation).
ReplyDeleteRegards
Leze
Party supplies places sell black and white checkered tablecloths for Alice themed parties but they are plastic and I wanted it be more Victorian elegant than kid friendly Alice. I don't remember the caterpillar at all! There are so many possibilities for decor' to go along with that theme. That's why I keep changing my mind. I saw a platter of sandwiches set up like a chest set, but I won't have enough tea sandwiches for that. But you've reminded me that I have a miniature, magnetic set in the car that I might be able to work in some place. If it's plastic coated it might even work on top of the cake. The cat is a great character! Love the cat.
DeleteP.S. Maybe I'll pull lines out the book to attach to the things I use.
DeleteLove, love the Alice theme, and I want to hear all about this party and see pics too, but why, oh why did you bring up taxes Jean???!! I hadn't given that a single thought until just now. I almost had to breathe into a paper bag!
ReplyDeleteI actually started on my taxes today but I didn't get very far before my paper shredder gave out and I lost interest. I do not like this yearly ritual.
DeleteOh for goodness sake! What fun!!! I'm so glad you still have your kindergarten friend. Mine's been gone nearly 6 years and I still find it harder to be without her than it is to be without Fred. Pink Flamingo lawn ornaments have been around since 1957? Well, so have we!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat impresses me is that pink flamingo has had such staying power. How many cheap, fads have done that? I actually remember them from a vacation we took in the late fifties. I still have some of the postcards we bought.
DeleteWhat fun, you better post the photos of your hard work!
ReplyDeleteThe danger of starting this early is I'll be bored with the whole thing by the time the party actually happens.
DeleteI love your Alice in Wonderland birthday party theme. I wouldn't know all those allusions to the book, but who cares? The gaps in memory of the book could provide a wonderful opportunity for guests to pool their knowledge to puzzle out the decorative themes. I've also been thinking about what I can do to make this year's birthday special, but I'm not as creative as you are. -Jean P.
ReplyDeleteI'm thinking of writing out some quotes of famous lines from the book that connect with a particular iconic thing like the flamingos, maybe put one by each place setting.
DeleteI was dreading my next birthday but I'm not anymore, now that I'm planning something positive. Picking a favorite book, poem, author or hobby is a great place to start with a party theme. The ideas will write themselves once you make the that first decision.
What a fun theme....and the party will be a blast! I'm with you on cooking/entertaining. I can do it, but I'm not a "natural" and I get obsessed with making everything more "perfect" than I have a clue how to execute. I had forgotten most of Alice from reading it, but loved the Johnny Depp version of the movie, so I remember most of what I know from that. :)
ReplyDeleteWe have a Hobby Lobby here that got some of my biz when helping with my son and daughter-in-law's wedding. I always hoped my friends wouldn't see me going in there -- the Hobby Lobby politics is on the "boycott" list amongst my friends. I haven't been back since (2013), but they had just what we needed at that time, so...I declared an emergency and shopped there -- have since paid penance. Ha
It kills me to go to Hobby Lobby for the same reason your friends boycott the place. My excuse is I had exhausted all the other local and online places so I guess I had an emergency, too. :)
DeleteI'll have to see if I can find the Johnny Depp version to watch before my birthday. I'd forgotten about that.
From the photos you've shared of your house at holiday time I think you under estimate your ability to do the perfect party decor.