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Welcome to my World---Woman, widow, senior citizen seeking to live out my days with a sense of whimsy as I search for inner peace and friendships. Jeez, that sounds like a profile on a dating app and I have zero interest in them, having lost my soul mate of 42 years. Life was good until it wasn't when my husband had a massive stroke and I spent the next 12 1/2 years as his caregiver. This blog has documented the pain and heartache of loss, my dark humor, my sweetest memories and, yes, even my pity parties and finally, moving past it all. And now I’m ready for a new start, in a new location---a continuum care campus in West Michigan, U.S.A. Some people say I have a quirky sense of humor that shows up from time to time in this blog. Others say I make some keen observations about life and growing older. Stick around, read a while. I'm sure we'll have things in common. Your comments are welcome and encouraged. Jean

Wednesday, March 26, 2025

The Art Class, Rosie The Riveter and a Great Netflix Movie

Happiness comes in many forms and it was delivered this week with an art class that lit a fire under my pot of stagnant creativity. The three part class is being taught by an award winning college professor who is teaching the class as a favor to our resident, retired art professor. This summer the instructor is taking these same workshops to Europe to teach what she calls Handmade Artist's Books. I guess it's a popular fad right now and there is plenty of evidence online to back up her claim. When it's all said and done we'll have a book of abstract art pages that we'll embellish with whatever pleases us and what pleases me is I'm going to turn the pages into a poetry book. Since moving to my continuum care campus I've written fifteen poems about various aspects of living here in my eight's and I've been wanting to do something with them. 

The class was advertised as "experimenting with art materials" so I had no idea we were going to be taking a large sheet of rag paper and act like kindergartners slopping watercolors every which way, then turning it over and doing the same thing on the back side. Our next class we'll be learning to cut and fold the sheet of paper to form a book that opens up accordion-style. The third class will be the embellishment phase, which to me looks more like scrapbooking than art but, of course, those judgments are always in the eyes of the beholder. All I know is that since the first class and now I've also finished up a paint-by-number I started working on last fall and lost interest in and I've stretched a canvas to use for another customized paint-by-number that I promised to my oldest niece. Plus I dug out my folder of poems to print and use as embellishments, along with a few photos from around the campus.

I also took a trip to JoAnn's Fabrics going out-of-business sale, bought some heavy paper I planned to print the poems on and prompted screwed up my printer trying. It took me almost two hours to get it working again because the paper not only got stuck but it caused the ink cartridges not to read anymore and I had to change them, clean the nozzle and preform all the set up/alignment stuff I did when I first got the printer. Won't be trying to put heavy paper through the printer again. Now I have to dream up another project that will use fifteen pieces of great quality scrapbook paper bought at the ridiculously low cost of twenty-five cents each. I have always loved and lusted after good paper. Back in the days when all I thought about was art I had a great collection of handmade paper samples, I even took a papermaking class in college and just now I realized that the blender I donated to Goodwill a month or so again could have been put to use turning my junk mail into homemade paper. Oh well, I don't have time for all the could have/should have ideas that flit through my head.

Change of topic: If you live in Michigan and get a chance to hear a lecture about Rosie the Riveter or the Willow Run Bomber Plant given by Clarre Kirhn Dahl, don't pass it up. She's a retired history educator specializing in Women's Studies who spoke for an hour and a half on our campus without notes or missing a beat. She had us spellbound and laughing and so pumped with pride in the 269,0000 women in our mom's generation who worked in the factories during WWII building planes ships, jeeps, guns, bullets and making uniforms. Many of us had joyful tears in our eyes when she was finished speaking. She's part of Michigan Flight Museum  (an affiliate of the Smithsonian) and is an official 'Tribute Rosie' who dresses in the iconic look made popular by Norman Rockwell magazine cover and she crisscrosses the country to tell the stories of the American home front during the war and along the way she locates and documents as many the still-living Rosie's as she can find. I had an aunt who was a Rosie. Her two kids lived with us and their mom would visit when she could. For a few years I thought I had three brothers instead of just the one.

If you like Women's history another fascinating and inspirational thing I saw this week was a netflix movie that tells the true story of a black unit of the Women's Army Corp during WWII called The Six Triple Eight. Like the Tuskegee Airmen, an all black unit that served during WWII, it took decades to get the recognition they earned and deserved only to have Musk, this week, use his chainsaw crew to remove their records from military archives as being too DEI. Anything related to Black History month got removed. Even famed baseball player, Jackie Robinson's military recorders got scrubbed. Thankfully, there is an effort to restore the damage these clearly unqualified "Musk's DOGE kids" did purging and attempting to white-wash history. History is history! It can be disturbing. It can be inspirational. It can be a lot of things but what it can't be is changed into something it wasn't. And yet here we are….  ©

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  1. Years ago (don't make me count) I helped with a dinner for home economists that featured a speaker whose program was Rosie the Riveter. It was fantastic. I don't suppose . . . Your art book sounds amazing. I can't imagine how frustrating it was to get the paper stuck in the printer. I have learned all kinds of colorful words since the election in 2016 and I think I could have helped you out with some. Sounds like some great programs going on.

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    1. I should have known better than try to put that paper through the printer. But I'm having fun playing with writing and art combined.

      Years ago it would have been a real Rosie The Riveter you saw but there are quiet a few Tribute Rosies around who dress in the iconic outfit created by Norman Rockwell, who give takes.

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  2. You got a great price on that paper. I couldn't bring myself to go to JoAnn's going out of business sale. It seemed like another ending of something good right when I'm jonesing for some good news. I've read about The Six Triple Eight but we don't have Netflix anymore. Of course movies show up in other places so I'll keep my eyes open.

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    1. It's a great movie and a forgotten bit of women's history and black history that the current admission is trying to destroy.

      I'm sad to lose Jo Ann's there is nothing around like it.

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  3. I'm always impressed by the activities offered at your ccc. Your new art class sounds great--and it's inspiring you. Those wonderful women who stepped up to contribute to the war effort should never be forgotten. Back in the day when most women stayed home, it took courage for those women to leave what was familiar and enter a brand new workforce. I'll always believe that those women are the ones who led the way for the rest of us to pursue whatever we want in life. Good for Claare Kirhn Dahl! I hope many get the chance to see her. Jean, I hope you're beginning to see some signs of spring. It's taking its sweet time where we live. I can't wait for it to warm up!

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    1. After I wrote this post I got very sick with a head cold from hell and I'm just not starting to feel human again. I have not been out to see if spring is here but it did snow a few days ago.

      We have a great Life Enrichment Director. I don't even write about half the things on our calendar. It's full all the time.

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  4. That art class sounds great! I'm glad you signed up for it and that you are inspired to get back to art. I've seen that movie already on Netflix. It is such an amazing story of the contribution of Black women to the war effort.
    Thanks for the video about Rosie - that woman does a fabulous job of spreading history and that is surely one of the things we need right now to remind everyone of ALL the contributions to our country.

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    1. It makes me so mad that 45/47 under The 2025 Project thinks it's a good thing to under value the contributions of any groups that are not white males to the point that they are removing records from the National Archives.

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  5. This is my favorite image of Rosie. I suspect it's not as well known, but there's a lot of love -- including her foot on the copy of Mein Kampf -- and that sandwich, and the muscles! My mother was a riveter in an Illinois aircraft factory; she and her partner worked on nose cones, and mom worked the inside. She was tougher than we imagined in her early days. She also got drunk for what might have been the only time in her life with her riveting crew. My dad found the whole bunch sitting around a kitchen table, with an empty vodka bottle in the middle.

    Your art project's interesting. It reminded me that I still have some unused notebooks that Jeanie made. She took what we used to call composition books and decorated the covers. They're so beautiful I've never been able to use them -- silly, I suppose. I ought to make use of them in some way!

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    1. That's the Rosie imagine that our speaker likes best and she pointed out all the symbolism in Rockwell's painting/cover art. Your mom must have been a small woman to work inside the nose cones. Our speaker said even midgets were used to rivet inside those.

      I saw a quote that I thought was funny. It went something like: "First Rule of writing: Hoard fancy notebooks. Second rule of writing: Don't used Hoarded notebooks." I can identify with that. I have notebooks that I'm afraid to to writing in.

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  6. One of the first things we did after moving 2 years ago was go to the Rosie the Riveter National Historic Park museum. So very interesting both for the story of all the Rosie’s but also the unions responses and the permanent impact of the wartime staffing impact on the local communities. Your art class sounds like a very fun and engaging project.

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    1. I did not know there is is Rosie the Riveter National Historic Park Museum.

      Art Class was fun and I probably do another post on it.

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    2. The museum is on the waterfront in Richmond, CA near the site of the old Kaiser shipyards and other military production WWII facilities. The war turned sleepy farm town Richmond into a 24 hour 7 day a week diverse town with a huge shortage of housing (think sleeping in the same bed in shifts or outdoors), creation of lots of public housing & child care center, and saw Kaiser Permanente medical group started.. Some great info on the historic park website.

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    3. One of the best parts of growing older is you get to see the cause and effects of things like you've described about Richmond.

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  7. The art project sounds so fun! Are you doing the "tie die" style light bright colors or the darker ones? What a super wonderful idea! And to think you already had poems waiting.

    I just put that movie in my "to watch" file. Maybe this weekend. I sure do not understand why people want to destroy history rather than just update as we learn more. I listened to part of a NPA episode on a group in San Francisco saving all the 💩 deleted websites and information, https://www.npr.org/2025/03/23/nx-s1-5326573/internet-archive-wayback-machine-trump. Starting in JANUARY, federal web pages vanished. Information about climate change, reproductive health, gender identity and sexual orientation also have been on the chopping block.

    He is just evil down to his last cell.

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    1. No tie dying involved and no planned procedures. Truly done like school children would do. Lots of fun.

      None of the cuts they're making to historical archives or data websites has anything to do with saving tax payers money. It's all to do with making threaten boy/men feel better about themselves,

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  8. I am so jealous of your artistic ability as you have so many talents that I did not get out of the gene pool. I am not a craft person, a painter, sculptor, or anything else that requires artistic skill as I call myself craft impaired! It is so nice that your CCC has so many offerings to choose from as there appears to be
    something for everyone. Actually I just saw that Rosie The Riveter is coming to our library, hopefully I will get to see it. Be sure to show us some of your finished artistic projects, as who knows, maybe there is still hope for me. JJ

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    1. I'm pretty sure that I know who you are, JJ, and if I'm right you have talents that I could begin to touch. You, my dear, have people skills!

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  9. I've seen that movie in a promo and it looks great. I'll add it to My List. And your creativity activities sound like a lot of fun -- minus the printer jam, of course. I'm impressed that you knew how to deal with that printer in such detail. I'm sure I would have had to buy a new one. lol.

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    1. I google how to fix a lot o things like printer issues and I have pretty good success. The trick is patience and to walk away if you find you're loosing it.

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  10. You sound like a busy woman who is living a good and active life

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    1. I'm surprised that I've been as active as I have been in these weeks leading up to Easter.

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  11. What a wonderful, info filled post. The film sounds very good (unfortunately, I don't have netflix) and so does the Rosie lecture. I'll keep an eye out for her. But what really got me was the paper and art. I'm a paper junkie too and though I don't do a lot of mixed media anymore, I can't quite give all of it away. I've done journals that sound similar to yours, though mine wasn't accordion, but the two sides painted on a huge sheet. It was such fun. I can't wait to see what you do!

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    1. I thought of you when I wrote this post. I was hoping you'd feel my joy the way I feel yours when you write about art. I will do another post this book but not this week, need to get feedback on it first from the instructor.

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  12. Maybe you can print out the poems on regular paper, cut them out, burn the edges a bit, and paste them onto the decorative paper? Just a thought. Or use scissors that cut with a decorative edge. Or maybe take the whole shebang to Staples and see what they can do!

    We watched Six Triple Eight shortly after it landed on Netflix and really enjoyed it.

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    1. I'd probably burn my apartment down. LOL It's tempting to go back to Jo Ann's and see what they have leave in fancy paper cutting tools but I'm trying hard to resist buying more craft enablers.

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  13. Sounds like such an inspiring and energizing week! Look at you go!!!! I will definitely look for that movie, Jean. Thanks for the recommendation.

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    1. I'm sure you'll like the bit of history covered in the movie. There's a great dancing scene in it too.

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  14. I'm jealous as I don't do sewing or crafts anymore (too frustrating with only one functional hand). But I'm hoping I can get my sister to take me to JoAnn's one last time to see if they have anything left that I can use. I don't know what could take its place, our Wal-mart eliminated their fabric department years ago and all the local fabric stores are long gone. Very sad, but people are mostly into electronics these days (their phones, mostly) and hardly even look up. I'm kind of glad to be old.

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    1. I hope you get to go to Jo Ann's on last time. I've been three times and found stuff each time and didn't have to spend much money. It's fun just to look around at all the stuff I've tried over the years.

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  15. So many interesting programs to choose from! And I can't imagine how you had the knowledge to fix that printer. After reading the steps you had to take, I think I would have loaded it on the truck and gone to Best Buy. LOL.

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    1. There is software on our computers that guides you through the process (at least for Epson printers) and if you take your time with lots of breaks when you get frustrated, it's not that hard. Our IT guy charges $95 an hour and that's also an insensitive to do it myself. LOL

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  16. I absolutely loved The Six Triple Eight. I thought it was wonderful. I would love to hear the Rosie lecture. I tried looking on line to see if she would be traveling to Texas. Didn't find anything but who would want to come here if you not a white, aging male who pretends to be Religious

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    1. I doubt in the current, anti-woman climate in the 45/47 era that anyone would book a lecture in Texas about women on the home front of war.

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