Before our monthly movie date, my club went to brunch at a
place that was a favorite of my husband’s. I call it the Breakfast Only Café because,
1) they’re only open between 4 AM and 2 PM, and 2) they specialize in breakfast
food with a few token items thrown in for those who don’t like eggs or gluten. The
tables on one side of the place are crowded close together and striking up
conversations with fellow customers is the norm rather than the exception. On
the other side it’s like the old-school diners with its long counter and line
of stools where you can sit and watch the ten waitresses and five cooks hustle.
And I do mean hustle. I’ve never been there when they weren’t swamped with
customers. If you don’t like waiting in line you don’t go there because getting seated usually takes a half hour or more. They have fantastic food, but it’s not a good place to
go if you’re not going right home in warm weather because they serve twice as much food than
any one person can eat. Knowing this, I came prepared with a cooler and ice
packs in the car. No way was I going to pay a fortune for brunch and see so
much food go to waste. And did I mention the bakery goods you
have to walk by to pay your bill?
The cafe was a terrible place to bring a person in a wheelchair,
though, because Don’s chair bottle-necked the place even more than it naturally
gets. There are only three tables that a person in a wheelchair can even get to
and use, so our wait was often longer than other people’s. But how do you say ‘no’
to a guy who lost so much of his life with the stroke? I rarely could. If he
wanted to go to the Breakfast Only Café we went even though I felt guilty doing
it. I must say, though, the waitresses and other customers never, ever once
showed annoyance of him being there clogging up the place. He was treated like royalty
by the owner/hostess who, no doubt, set the tone for the others. I can’t say
that about every place we’d been to over the twelve years of me pushing a
wheelchair. Some people treat the disabled like they hate being reminding that life is fragile. Movie day was only the second
time since Don died that I’ve been back to the place. I swear a widow would
have to move to another city if she needed to avoid all the memory triggers.
The movie we saw was Hot
Pursuit with Reese Witherspoon and Sofia Vergara. IMDb sums up the plot
like this: “An uptight and by-the-book cop tries to protect the outgoing widow
of a drug boss as they race through Texas pursued by crooked cops and murderous
gunmen.” Don’t you just love how some people can sum up an entire movie or book
in one sentence like that? I could never do it. The reviewer at Rotten Tomatoes called the
movie, “shrill and unfunny” and “bungles what should have been an easy
opportunity to showcase Reese Witherspoon and Sofia Vergara's likable
odd-couple chemistry.” The New York Times review said, “We are in the midst of a
comedy boom, and within it an explosion of feminist and woman-driven humor, but
the news has apparently not reached Warner Bros. headquarters. Hot Pursuit is cautious and tentative in
its pursuit of laughs, and almost entirely unsure of how to go about being
funny.”
Personally, I think both the reviews above were a little
harsh and I suspect they were being pickier than they’d be with males in the leading
roles. But I didn’t go into the movie expecting to see a classic in the making.
It’s a genre film, after all---slap stickiest and silly and dependent on the
kind of humor you’d see in a Paul Bart (Mall
Cop) movie. If I wanted to see smart humor, I’d stay home and watch The Big Bang Theory on TV or reruns of Frasier and Barney Miller. I like both
Reese and Sofia---what I know of their off camera lives---so I won’t bad-mouth
their acting in anyway. The characters they played weren’t the type that
gave them an opportunity to stretch their craft like Reese's character in Wild did. And who cares? They’re making a living
doing what they love and how many of us can say that?
How did the other fourteen ladies in my group feel about Hot Pursuit? Pretty much the same as me. We agreed it was lighthearted and funny enough to give us a break from the type of movies we usually see and we all found things to make us laugh out loud. But at the same time it's a forgettable movie that I doubt any of us will be adding to our video libraries when it comes out on Blu-ray. ©
See the movie trailer here.
How did the other fourteen ladies in my group feel about Hot Pursuit? Pretty much the same as me. We agreed it was lighthearted and funny enough to give us a break from the type of movies we usually see and we all found things to make us laugh out loud. But at the same time it's a forgettable movie that I doubt any of us will be adding to our video libraries when it comes out on Blu-ray. ©
See the movie trailer here.
Sounds like a good time! I don't think I'd like that movie, but then--I rarely go to the cinema. The movie has to be really good and then...I wait until it comes out on Comcast On Demand, LOL. I am such a stick-in-the-mud.
ReplyDeleteI like the Movie and Lunch Club more for the restaurants that we go to than for the movies, although most of the movies, at the very least, give me something to think about. We never go to the same restaurant twice and many are places that have earned some kind of notoriety and have been reviewed in our Sunday paper. This movies is not in my favorite genre of movie. Like a book club, it's hit and miss finding something everyone will like.
ReplyDeleteI'm with Judy...I don't go to the movies much...I recently saw the movie that Jon Stewart directed and the documentary about Edward Snowdon because I was curious but that is all recently. And I don't have a television but on occasion when I am in a hotel or on an airplane I do watch Big Bang Theory which is amusing!
ReplyDeleteRegards
Leze
I just discovered the Big Bang Theory a month ago and I'm catching up on past episodes. I've got a crush on Lenard. LOL
DeleteI wonder if Jon Stewart will do more documentaries after he retires from the Daily Show. I sure am going to miss seeing him every weeknight.
The Cafe sounds great. I love to go to a busy place because you know that the food is going to be good. They treated your husband good too. That rocks.
ReplyDeleteHubby and I haven't been to a movie in so many years. Probably close to 20 years. Too many rude people the last few times we went. Talking on their phones or to each other.
Have a fabulous day. :)
Go to the matinees and you'll have the place practically to yourself. That's what we do and many times we are the only audience or their be 3-4 others. But you can wait until the film comes out in video which sure doesn't take long now days.
DeleteGood for the owner of Don's favorite cafe for setting the right tone in her interactions with him. I think American culture has a lot of trouble with disability, and we deal with it by either infantilizing the disabled (hmmm, just like we do with the elderly -- maybe a connection there) or acting as though they don't exist. My disabled sister used to just seethe when she went out to lunch with her teen-age daughters and the waitstaff asked her daughters rather than her what she wanted to eat. I served for several years on my college's ADA compliance committee and it was like banging my head against a brick wall over and over and over again.
ReplyDeleteAbout 15 years ago, when I was on vacation in England, I was struck by how many people in wheelchairs I saw there on the streets and in restaurants and how normal and unremarkable people's interactions with them were. -Jean
I don't understand why businesses don't want to at least try to comply with the ADA laws. My pet peeve is bathroom stalls that technically comply but the business pull things like cabinets or fake plants or whatever in the room taking up the wheelchair turn or transfer space. Your sister's experience with waitstaff happened to us as well. A lot of people talk to the person pushing a chair instead of the person in.
DeleteThe worst so-called handicap accessible bathroom we ran into was in a brand-new hospital. They had installed the door to swing in instead of out and once Don got inside with his chair, you could not close the door. It took two years before they corrected it. We complained twice and I image a lot of others did as well.
That's interesting about England.